Thoughts on Sanctity of Human Life, Part 2

I have had several discussions with many different people about this topic. Kevin has shared with me his thoughts as well.

A few years ago when they were going through in vitro, there were seven embryos. Three did not survive, two were implanted, and two were stored. After the pregnancy progressed one of those two died also.

He says whenever people ask him how many children he has, he says seven. And of course people have a huge reaction to that because a family even that large is not only unusual these days but also looked upon as probably reckless or irresponsible. Then he explains that 4 are in heaven and 2 are waiting and we have Abby.

But just because those children are not with us is not mean that they didn't exist or that they don't have value. Talking like this is one step towards reinforcing this truth and helping people realize it.

Sometimes it's hard to bring up a child that didn't survive, be it a miscarriage or some other kind of death because it's very personal and painful. Especially given how many people feel about respecting life. And also because we are going against what is expected. It's understandable why we often choose to go along with societal preferences instead of upholding the honor and validity of all lives.

I pray we all acquire more strength and wisdom to help change the view back to what is true. I pray we will be sensitive and supportive towards one another as this happens.